The Real Truth About & Their Deceptive Tricks

 Mar, 01 - 2017   9 comments   ReviewsScams

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  • $29.95 for a monthly subscription package.
  • $59.95 for a 3 month subscription package.
  • $119.95 for a 12 month subscription package.


  • Dating Center: The "Dating Center" tab shows you members online now, the latest profiles on the site as well as who viewed your profile and which profiles you viewed as well. On top of that it shows you who you like and who likes you.
  • Search: The search section shows you a list of people located in you're community based on your location, age and if they are online with photographs.
  • Help: The help section shows you frequently asked questions and you can also contact the website from this area of the website
  • Updates: The updates section is like a Twitter feed where you can type a message and send an update that all your friends can see on the site.
  • Messages: The messages section shows you messages that other members have sent you
  • Matches: In the matches section it shows you your matches. In order to use the matches section you will need to start liking users and if they like you back you will become matched and shown in this section of the site.


Right off the bat we need to tell you that is part of a network of fictitious dating sites. The list of sites connected to a includes,,,,,,,, and All of these sites are being used to trick people, mislead people and in the end make money from ripping off thousands of consumers on there fictitious dating services. We will explain in this investigation why ArousingDates is not a real site, and we will back up everything with valid proof.

The Females Profiles & The Story Behind Them

It may not be understood or known by most people but Arousing Dates has a little secret that they hide on their terms page (section i6). This little secret is that this website has almost zero real female members on it. On their own terms page they confess that they create fictitious profiles. The reason it's in the terms page is because they don't want you to know about it. What they're doing by putting it in their terms and conditions page is covering themselves from any form of legal ramifications. We're not lawyers so we don't know exactly how it all works out but regardless of that is the fact that this website is using fake profiles that they have admitted to creating on their own terms page.

Is there very hard to identify which profiles are legitimate and which ones are real just by looking at them. The people behind this massive deception are very versed in the art of creating fictitious profiles. They use images of attractive looking women and with those images they create a fake profile page. In the profile page is everything you would see in a real profile but it's all made up. None of the information you see on the bogus profile pages on is real.

The bottom line is if it looks too good to be true it probably is. Many times the most attractive profiles on fake dating sites are the ones that aren't real. They use images of very attractive looking women (many times the photos are of pornstars or escorts) because these type of photographs work extremely well for a sex personals dating service. Men are visual creatures and if you show them an image of an attractive looking girl with big breasts chances are they will get caught hook, line & sinker.

And the use of fake profiles can land the owners of this site in hot water with the FTC just like it did with JDI Dating back in 2014 when they were required to pay a $616,165 fine for the use of deceptive phony profiles. Admits They Use "Virtual Profiles" Right on Their Front Page!

 You have to hand it to the people who run this site because they are masters of deception and trickery and they hide things in plain view. In this particular part of the investigation we took a screenshot of the homepage that has proof that they are involved in creating fake computer-generated virtual profiles. As you can see from the evidence circled in red below you need to "agree to receive communications from computer-generated virtual profiles that are targeted to your interests that are sent to you by". This is on the front page of the site so it baffles us as to the amount of people who get duped into upgrading. We do understand they use small lighter colored text. It's all done on purpose so you skip over. The fine print is on the homepage of the site just below where you need to create your membership. virtual profiles proof
(Screen showing they use "computer generated virtual profiles".)

Profile Photos Are Stolen From Porn & Escort Websites

We've already concluded and proven that that this site is involved in the fabrication of fictitious profiles that they then use to give the site the appearance that it has thousands of horny looking local women. In this part of our investigation we are providing you proof showing you where many of these profile photos come from. For our due diligence and research and using our reverse image software programs we have identified a few fictitious profiles using most likely stolen photos. Many of the profile pictures are snagged from adult porn sites, escort sites and other sites on line. You can take a look at the evidence below, circled in red. Below those screenshots you will also see the links proving that these pictures are copied from other sites and then used to manufacture bogus profile pages on this bogus dating service.

Fake profile photo
(Fake profile photo found on other sites.)

(Fake profile photo found on other sites.)

(Fake profile photo found on other sites.)

Here's another fake profile pic and through our due diligence it looks as if she's an escort. The chances of her creating a profile on a Arousing Dates is slim to none.

(Fake profile photo found on other sites.)
This photo was found on numerous adult image sites. The fact that the website admits they create fake profiles and the proof that this profile picture was found on adult porn sites only proves that this isn't a legitimate female member.


Automated Messages

The people that operate this site have thought of every little trick they can to mislead you. Another popular tactic that most fictitious dating sites use including use is automated messages using chat bots. Automated email messages are used to mislead you into purchasing a paid subscription to this site. This site uses software programs that can send you pre composed, fictitious emails. The emails seem legit but unfortunately they've been prewritten and sent to you by a computer program not a real member of the website. Any time you try to reply to an email message you will always be asked to upgrade to a paid membership. This is the intention of the site administrators, deceiving and misleading you into wanting to upgrade to communicate with other members. Unfortunately the women emailing you are also fictitious, just like the emails sent on their behalf!


The shysters have thought of every trick in the book, and this one of the real dozy. Employees who work for this website are trained in the art of lying to people. These paid employees who pretend to be female members are used to make you believe that they're interested in you. In reality you have no clue who you're chatting with and emailing on the site so it's very easy for you to be tricked into paying for a monthly membership while chatting to a man pretending to be a woman!

Unfortunately when you want to believe something is true you will let yourself believe it's real even if you know deep down it's probably not. Romance scammers prey on lonely people all the time raking in millions of dollars. In this situation it's the actual website preying on you and trying to dupe you by hiring employees that are paid to pretend to be interested in you all in an effort to get you to purchase monthly membership. Now you know the truth!

They Confess To Everything!

In an effort to provide you as much valid proof as we can we've also included part of the ArousingDates terms and conditions where they discuss their deceptive business tactics. In the terms page they talk about the fictitious profiles that the create. They also talked about how they create and reply to emails using automated programs. And they also discuss that they employ people who interact with you which is part of their paid employment. And they also stated that all of this is fictitious and none of it is real. You can take a look at a below or click on this link to be taken to the terms page (read section i6) directly on their website.

  • AROUSINGDATES.COM, we may post fictitious profiles, generate or respond to communications by means of automated programs or scripts that simulate or attempt to simulate your intercommunication with another real human being (though none really exists and any dialog is generated by programming)
  • and we may employ or contract for the paid services of real persons who may interact with you as part of their compensated employment.
  • While these communications may seem genuine, authentic, and personal, they may be broadcast simultaneously to a large number of persons and possess none of these qualities. While their contents may appear to be true, they may be quite false; while their contents may appear to sincere, they may be quite disingenuous. Sometimes, we may use these techniques or others like them for other business purposes, too, including, but not limited to those cases in which we monitor and/or investigate into operations, including but not limited to allegations that you or others have violated this Agreement.

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Final Decision: does everything they can to manipulate you into purchasing a membership to their site. They have no qualms about lying, cheating, misleading you to make the mighty dollar. We are here to put a stop to fake dating services. We feel it's our duty to inform the public about illegitimate sites disguised as real dating services.

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 Comments 9 comments

  • […] The Real Truth About & Their Deceptive Tricks […]

    • Xxx says:

      I've been doing this for a couple years now. Well probably three I don't want to admit anything about the first year. Many zeros went out my wallet, savings and Credit Cards I'm still paying for it. But I knew it the whole time. It's not funny even now it pisses me off. but there's nothing I can do I thought it was real I really did. That was my first experience on the internet Wow real fun for me.TaDa.. and here I am still exploring the worst sites in the world to get a date on right? It became a challenge to see if I could actually meet one. Every angle I tried. I'm not an expert at dating either, but I tried everything I could think of. LOL my predictions were right every time. I have a trick that can tell the fake from the real!!! 20,30 maybe 50 times I tried it. Guess how many times it worked? Every time I found out who was real and who wasn't. The problem is there wasn't a real one there to justify my trick believe it or not. I wish I could tell you all I know. If this gets posted in your read it. Laugh at yourself because we're all idiots playing with fire, burning our identities flushing our credit in the hole. Just for someone else to reap the riches. nobody wants to hear the truth. even if you know it with- in!!! And don't want to talk about it because you will be judged by the people you tell. The truth is. Yep you're right they're going to call you an idiot. Why do you do this. And laugh at you. So what you're having fun at it. Burning cash that you don't even have. Nothing is going to visit you at the bar at a cafe wherever on these sites. the ones that are listed for a rousing date. There is 20 more associated with them and so on and so on. Anyway to get your shit straight and find something new to do with your life. Zoosk is it good one period even though the local girls might not be so plentiful. But at least you can trade your personal information if you want. I have friends all over the United States now. Anyways HEy techeeee, no offense your probly the boss right? I want a job with you guys? If you're legit so am I!!! There are so many scammers out there. I would love to take them all down single-handedly but I don't even know what to do with them. For real I would love to be part of your team!!! Fishspy is your guy.. let's go hunting baby LOL.? I have a question. Are you affiliated with these dating sites? You could be couldn't you? Yeah I'll call you 50 50 TTYL

    • Adam Wragg says:

      Within the last hour I have left Arousing Dates after 3 days (almost). I registered but did research before I paid anything. I was inundated by apparently living women of all ages who found me irresistible (a significant clue I know. Finally one repeat cyber babe said I had ghosted her and gave me a cheery ‘Fuck you’. Core programming must also be corrupt!

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  • Billy says:

    Is real or not straight answer please

  • Mark W. says: is a decent website. Not the best one but I am trusting them for a year now. I met more than a few ‘real’ people there. So it’s very individual.

  • Cory says:

    I failed to read this first, but luckily only bought a month subscription for one of them. I discovered one such instance where one or both are just stealing profiles. Arousingdates has a woman in Goldcoast Australia named sexlilpothead as Xmeeting has named wantsumlovin77 in Saint Petersburg, FL. Something is not right.

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