Alert: Uses Profiles To Mislead Their Own Members

 Jun, 21 - 2016   11 comments   ReviewsScams

Website Details:


  • $2.97 for a 3 day trial to the dating service.
  • $27.99 for a 1 month membership to the dating service.
  • $56.97 for an 3 month membership to the dating service.
  • $95.94 for an 6 month membership to the dating service.


  • Messages: You can view emails from other members.
  • Rooms: Use the chat rooms to interact with other members.
  • Profile: You can update your profile page, add photos and change any personal information. 


Today we investigated a dating site called Early in our investigation we were able to determine that this website was connected to numerous other websites we have reviewed in the past. These sites include,,, and For this investigation as always we created an account on the site we are reviewing. This helps us to give you a complete picture of our experiences with the dating service. It also helps us to dig deep and uncover any illegitimate findings that we come across. You can read the full review below.

Messages Filling Up On Inbox Within Minutes

It didn't take very long for us to start receiving instant messages. You can take a look at the evidence below where we took a screenshot showing that we received 11 messages in under 15 minutes. This wasn't a record for us but it was quite high to receive that amount of email messages in such a short time span. This is always a red flag to us and usually indicates the use of automated bots. An automated bot (short for robot) is a computer software program created to send people instant messages and emails that appear to be coming from other members but are actually computer-generated with no humans sending you the messages.

You might be scratching your head trying to understand why exactly would we be receiving 15 messages from automated robots? The answer is a little bit in depth, we will explain it. The first thing you need to understand is that it doesn't matter what website you're on you're not going to receive 11 messages in 15 minutes unless there's something shady going on or your a celebrity. The automated bots are used as a marketing strategy. And what they're trying to market to you is a paid monthly membership. But there's absolutely no incentive for you to upgrade if your not getting messages from hot looking girls, so the website does just that they start sending you automated instant messages that seem to be coming from girls who have joined the site. But this is all smoke and mirrors no one is actually sending you instant messages. These automated bots used templated pre-written messages and then automatically send those messages to male members when they join their dating service. You can even run your own experiment and upload a photograph of a clown, an alien etc and guess what you will still receive just as many instant messages as we did. It's because there are no actual women viewing your profile. Like we've already said this is a marketing trick used to get you interested in replying to women on the site at which time you will be asked to purchase an upgraded membership. Unfortunately there's absolutely no reason to upgrade since no actual women are looking at you profile. You're interacting with computer software programs and not real people. messages
(Screen shot showing that we got 11 messages from bots.)

18 Notifications From Bots Not Real Women

If you take a look at the evidence below we took a screenshot showing that we have received 18 notifications while on FlirtyDesires. These notifications include "people browsed your profile, and also shows people who have "winked" at you. These are all part of the same strategy of enticing you to want to communicate back to the women browsing your profile and winking at you and sending you messages. It's all a trick and there are no real humans sitting there browsing your profile and winking at you. Using the same elaborate computer bots this website makes it seem like women are interacting with you, it's all a facade and a trick to entice you into upgrading.

automated notifications
(18 automated notifications.)

Proof Of Stolen Photos Used To Create Phony Female Profiles

Below we have taken screenshots of a few fake profiles we have found on the site. The reason we know these are pretend profiles is because we can track back where the profile pictures used in these fictitious member profiles are located on other web sites. One of the fake profiles is from Jasmine Villegas who is an American singer. And the other member profile is also fake, and she is actually an amateur porn star called Hunter Leigh. Why would these women be on Flirty Desire? And the answer is they're not on this site, their stolen photos are being used to create imaginary members.

Fake member profile
(Stolen photo used to create a fake profile.)

Jasmine Marie Villegas is an American pop and R&B singer and she's not looking to hookup with people on We took a screenshot of this fake profile of this girl calling herself Gina. We did some due diligence and digging around online and were able to verify that this fake profile pic is actually of Jasmine Vilegas a pop singer from San Jose California.


Fake profile


(Stolen photo used to create a fake profile.)

This is an amateur porn model called Hunter Leigh, she even has her own website Why would she be on a dating site looking to meet guys? It doesn't make much sense does it? This is just another fake profile, not a legitimate girl.


The Terms Page Explain What They're Up To

In the terms and conditions page of there are some very interesting sentences that you should be reading. One of them states that from time to time they do create profiles which are managed and maintained by their employees. Anytime a website is creating profiles you need to wonder what exactly is going on. In our past reviews anytime a dating site was found using profiles they themselves have created we found other problems that led to us determining that site was a scam. In This particular case they also admit that they use automatic pop-up notifications to send you activity alerts. All of these automatic notifications are of course completely automated meaning that no one is emailing you or viewing your profile. This only goes to prove even further that form our opinion Flirty Desires is not a true legitimate dating service. It may appear to be legitimate but from our investigation and what we have found on the site we find it not to be that way. You can read the terms and conditions below or click this link section #1 to be taken directly to their website.

  • We may, from time to time, create profiles which are created, maintained and managed by our employees ("Staff Profiles").

  • To boost interaction between our members and in order to notify them of newly registered matches and any activity of that new user (i.e. registration, photo upload etc.) we may, from time to time, use an automatic pop up notification system and other communication channels e.g. inbox or instant messages to send Activity Alerts to you. Activity Alerts will be marked in your inbox with a specific icon, and some auto generated Activity Alerts may require an upgraded Paid Membership in order to see the content of message and reply to it.

  • All users accept and understand that in order to boost their profile amongst users, such alerts about their registration and account update activity (such as new photos) may be broadcast by us, on that user's behalf, and users consent to such distribution amongst members automatically by our system, from time to time.

Hosting Server Info:

  • Address Of Host: Trident Chambers P.O. Box 146, Road Town, Tortola, VG
  • IP Address Of Server:
  • Name Servers:,

Contact Information :

  • Phone: 1-800-489-6091 or 1-212-796-5746
  • Addresses: P.O. Box 146, Trident Chambers, Road Town, Tortola, British Virgin Islands
  • Email: [email protected]

Final Decision:

From our experience with this site you know their using automated software programs that they themselves admit to. This will be the last time we visit this site. Any website that resort to using automated bot to send deceptive email messages and instant messages is not something we want to be registered on.

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 Comments 11 comments

  • Frank says:

    Hi and thankyou yes everything u. Said is true but being on the site all of Friday into Saturday  I do well in bars my friends always say if I leave with a girl on here I new there was something going on when I was getting all the messages I had to upgrade just to read the girls were beautiful So I said maybe one is real because being on mate 1 for 3 months what a JOKE my point beginning out of both of them I met 4 on chat on there first thing I do if the girl is interested is ask them for video CHAT the real beautiful ones were okay and I did get a date on one occasion on flirts the girl asked for my email been already upgraded so I said give me your number and I lucked out she was nice and thought we wer scaming them So your absolutely wright if your on there long enough and have decent looking you can meet girls at a pretty good expense when it's all said and done cheaper to go to a bar and see the reel thing ………Thanks again if only more people took the time to get these fucen scammers poor guys lose a lot of money and a broken heart my friends would say 

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  • Brandon tchir says:

    Thanks for the review of the site im pretty good looking but 16 msgs in like 3 mins come on. Is there any canadian sites that are real? Or do i just gotta flirt with the bots lol

  • Stephanie Dawn says:

    Not only is this site illegitimate it also bookmarked itself on my browser when I have never been on… As I said I have never even been on the site so why do I now have an account with my email and my photo?  This had caused more than just minor problems with my BF and I and I was wondering how I could solve the issue and remove my email and photo from this site since as I have stated in the beginning I never created a profile with any email on this site nor have I ever been on the site itself…  Please let me know if you can help me..  Thanks!! 

    • Admin says:

      Hey Stephanie,

      It’s fraud for sure. You can contact the site and tell them what happened. Here are phone numbers and email address:

      • Phone: 1-800-489-6091 or 1-212-796-5746
      • Addresses: P.O. Box 146, Trident Chambers, Road Town, Tortola, British Virgin Islands
      • Email: [email protected]
  • Pawan says:

    Hi I have opened account with Flirtydesires and I have made the payment but the site, chat and pictures is not opening. please resolve the problem


  • Edwin Kelly says:

    I'm sick to death of us guys being TAKEN for a ride, mislead, and made to pay all in the hope of finding a partner. It's always us men who have to pay and we get NOTHING IN RETURN but disappointment and broke.

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  • riccardo valeri says:

    how can i unsubacribe this fake?

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