Review: Is A Dishonest Dating Service Trying To Conceal Their Real Motive

 May, 02 - 2019   17 comments   ReviewsScams

Website Details:


  • $2.97 for a 3 day trial that renews at $59.97 a month.
  • $27.99 to buy a monthly subscription to the site.
  • $45.90 to to buy a 3 month subscription to the site.
  • $95.94 to to buy a 6 month subscription to the site.


Today we’re doing an investigation into which is connected to another dating scam that we’ve already investigated called The company behind both of these websites is a corporation called Porticato Media limited. This corporation operates many, many different dating sites (,,,,,, in all kinds of niches, and many different languages. We will be getting to all of their sites in the upcoming months. Today though we are focusing on Flirt Moms, our goal is to see if the site is real or if it’s a fake dating scam that’s intended to rip you off and trick you into purchasing a monthly membership. You can read our findings and any evidence below.

22 Fake Messages Sent From Chatbots Not Real Females

As always a fake dating site can’t be fake without fictitious emails. And that’s exactly what’s happening on Flirt Moms. The people running this website are sending us automated messages that look like they’re coming from a variety of different women who want to hook up with us. Unfortunately all of this is not real. There aren’t any real mature moms sending us instant messages or emails. It’s all fictitious using high-tech software bots this website can mimic real users making it appear as if women are contacting you, sending you emails and chat messages. But just like the hundreds of other dating scams we’ve exposed this website requires you to purchase an upgraded monthly membership so you can read the contents of the emails or the instant messages.

Most people don’t have nearly as much experience as we do with dealing with dating sites. So, if they join a dating site and all of a sudden they start getting emails they’re going to think that these are real messages being sent by real female members. But that’s not the case on this website. This website has been created solely to trick you into buying a monthly membership by using phony messages that have been sent to you from automated computer software chat bots.

(A screenshot of the 20 fake messages that we received from automated chatbots.)

7 Fake Notifications Sent From Bots Not Real Females

You can take a look at the screenshot below showing that we have received 85 different notifications. All these notifications are automated. And you should know that all these notifications aren’t real. There are no women adding our profile to their favorites list. It’s a crock of bull, all it is is a marketing strategy that’s used to get you to try and communicate with the phony women adding you to their favorites list. You can’t reply or send any emails or any type of messages to these women unless you have an upgraded account and that’s how the website makes money when you upgrade.

We know the website uses automated notifications because they told us in their terms and conditions page in section #1 where they state that to “boost interaction between their members they use an automatic pop-up notification system to send activity alerts you.” Some of these activity alerts require you to upgrade to a paid membership in order to see the messages.

(Screenshot of the phony automated notifications that we received.)

Why Would 22 Women Contact A Guy With No Photo In His Profile?

When we do these investigative reports we always use a dating profile that’s empty. We never upload any photographs, and we fill out as little information as we possibly can. There’s a really big reason for this! The reason is that if we start getting messages, emails and any other type of communications on a large scale then that is a big red flag that the website is in fact fake. Let us explain. Why would so many different women go out of their way to email or to send an instant message to a guy who doesn’t have pictures on his profile page? Would you contact a girl that didn’t have any pictures in her profile? Probably not right? The reason we’re getting all these different messages even though our profile is empty and you can see in the screenshot below is because these messages aren’t real. They’re using automated computer software chat bots to send us a multitude of different emails that appear to be sent from a variety of different females. It’s all a huge mirage! They want you to think real women are contacting you all you need to do is buy a membership so you can reply back to the messages. And wham as soon as you buy the membership they just scammed you and you will never meet these women in person because they simply DO NOT exist!

(A screenshot showing that our profile is empty but women are still messaging us.)

They Hide The Proof In Plain View, The Terms And Conditions

Below as we do with all our investigations we try to include any incriminating evidence that we find in the terms and conditions page. For this review we found that the website does admit to using an automated pop-up notification system, as well as instant messages and emails to send communications to you. They also admit that some of these automatically generated forms of communications require you to upgrade and pay for a membership. This just proves that the website obviously knows what they’re doing. If you want to read the most important parts of the terms and conditions page you can read it below or click on this link (visit section #6.b) and read it directly on their own website.

  • To boost interaction between our members and in order to notify them of newly registered matches and any activity of that new user (i.e. registration, photo upload etc.), we may, from time to time, use an automatic pop up notification system and other communication channels e.g. inbox or instant messages to send Activity Alerts to you.
  • Some auto generated Activity Alerts may require an upgraded Paid Membership in order to see the content of message and reply to it.
  • You authorise us to reproduce and broadcast the information contained in your profile including your name, photograph, “chat up line”, description etc. throughout all or part of our Partner Sites and our Group Companies for the purposes of delivering the Services to you and for marketing and other purposes as explained in more detail below under section 6(B) Our rights to use your content for our own purposes.

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Final Decision:

If you have a fantasy of being with a milf or a cougar then this is definitely the wrong place to do it. As we’ve outlined in this review this website is completely and totally false. is totally untruthful, it’s misleading and very deceiving!

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 Comments 17 comments

  • Peter conejo says:

    I was not looking to hook up or get married. I was looking for email pals in different countries. But somehow was picked up by Russian? Scammers. Fell in love with me after three emails. I texted that I was not interested in sex , marriage or any romantic relationship. I had been in China in 1975 and I was hoping to find a “pen pal” around my age to communicate with. But I got Russian / Ukraine . To make this shorter my most interesting experience was the three Russian women who were in love wanted to migrate and marry me. I said no over and over again And would not give my real name, my country, my address, my cell phone number, closet air port etc.but all three got visas to an unspecified country, passport, one way airline ticket, health insurance and had withdrawn all the money in bank accounts , etc and had flown from their home city to Moscow for an interview at an embassy. I asked which and got no comes the interesting part. All three after the interview took a taxi back to a large hotel in Moscow and was dropped off near the hotel. While walking up the s were hit from behind , knocked down and had purse stolen with all the above lost in cluding credit cards and phones. Now none had paid for the hotel yet so owed hotel bills, meals as well, and were unable to pay and were arrested for fraud as they were in able to pay .
    Some how they were able to text me and beg me to wire money to get out of jail and to replace all that was stolen so that they fly to me and we could spend the rest of our lives 2,500 – 5,000 usd, which would be returned to me. I admit I knew these were scammers because I gave my true age , 77, and told them that due to prostate cancer I was sterile and my first text. But we were going to raise a family and have unbelievable sex.

    • brent says:

      yeah I gave my visa details to flirt mums, I worked out to late what was goin on when I checked my bank account? they had charged me for several different but similar bogus site who charged my visa for several individual lots of my dosh , I’m choking,!!!want to strangle someone, fu…n fraudulent!

  • Damian says:

    I have come in contact with numerous women that  are scammers.  Numerous sites P.O.F., Mingle, etc . The women are reslly nice and friendly. But, you won't be able to talk to them. Text only! I have been through this several times . My girl of 9.5 years passed away on 3-3-19, so I was an easy target. I have visited other sites and seen them with different names or variations of their names. I am done with this crap. I can't put up with it. I am signing out.  -Damian






    • David says:

      Get on a genuine site and only get occasional interest and alot of women are very average looking. Scam sites always have beautiful women and before u have finished filling out your details with no pic they are contacting you ………so obvious a scam.Also if u suggest we go onto email they always refuse because they want u to keep buying credits.

  • José Martins says:



    I'm atonished with the scams they use to go to the pocket of everyone who fall on their net. 

    My own experience shows how they got 4 subscription from me in a blink… Tricky way of in a click your card is on debt. 


    I would like to know how to stop their continuously messages. 





  • Tomislav says:

    Hello i have a problems with flirtmoms they send me on novalnet ag and send me another and another bill? They robber me and i dont know how to stop it.. Can you help me please? 

  • Dale H Cline says:

    I have been scammed for thousands of fillers by this site. My banks are currently looking for these scammers and it is turning one name of Emma Stewart.

  • Rowdy says:

    Flirtmoms total scam !
    Cancelation process very complicated…
    Terms & conditions allow them to share your billing details with a number of different sites constantly billed for various $ amounts monthly buy a different websites.
    Recent audit off account shows deductions from the following

    Lvasnl. Com

    Contacted my bank they recommend closing personal bank account.

  • GMJ says:

    There is no “delete account” button on the settings part, please somebody help asap, how the fuck can I delete it??? I also go on to disable the 3day subscription but after answering the bullshit, if i go at it again it appears like it wasnt cancelled nor disabled…

  • Kim says:

    Can i send my number to someone directly on flirtmoms,will the message deliver to the person as soon as i send it?

  • Brandon says:

    Well of course it’s a scam. You can tell it’s a scam when you create a profile and get 3 or 4 messages and likes/matches in the first week, let alone in the first 60 seconds after joining. Even real dating sites/apps boost your visibility for the first few days and mix in bots to give men a dopamine hit that keeps them on the app because men simply don’t get enough responses from woman to justify their using the site/app.

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