Overwhelming Evidence Shows FindMyFlings.com Is A Bogus Dating Site

 Aug, 28 - 2019   12 comments   ReviewsScams

Website Details:


  • 10 credits costs you $14.99 which works out to be $1.49 per message.
  • 25 credits costs you $34.99 which works out to be $1.39 per message.
  • 50 credits costs you $64.99 which works out to be $1.29 per message.
  • 100 credits costs you $119.99 which works out to be $1.19 per message.
  • 200 credits costs you $199.99 which works out to be $1.99 per message.


From our first look FindMyFlings.com appears to be another cookie-cutter dating website. There are hundreds of websites out there that look exactly like this one. The big question is if this website is a scam or can you actually hook up and have a fling with real women? We have the information for you just keep on reading below.

This Site Is Associated With Tons Of Other Dating Sites, All Of Which Are Fake

This important piece of evidence lists the various websites that are associated with FindMyFlings. The first website is MyPrivateFling.com, next is OnlineHookup4u.com, AmericanFlings.com, SimpleFlirts.com, MyHornySnap.com, and lastly is OurDirtyFling.com. If you take a look at any of those sites you’ll see that they look almost identical. This doesn’t mean the sites are scams but what does make the site a scam is how they operate. We will explain exactly what they do behind the scenes and how they really operate that makes it fraudulent.

The Site Openly Admits To Creating Fake Profiles

Like all of these different websites Find My Flings doesn’t hide the fact that they fabricate fake dating personals. Yes, You read that correctly! This website admits to fabricating fictitious dating profiles that they then use to make you believe that the site has all these women looking for sex, when it’s not even real. This statement is found at the bottom of every single page of the site! See the evidence below.

(A screenshot showing that the site confesses to creating bogus profiles.)

Why Would They Make Fake Profiles?

You might be asking yourself what’s the point of making all these fake profiles. And what you probably don’t understand is that the ratio of men to women on adult hookup sites is 80% men compared to 20% women. So this website is creating thousands of fake profiles to fill the void. This makes you think that the site has tons of women looking for hookups when in reality all of those profiles are fake and they have been fabricated by the websites own staff!

The Site Confesses To Creating Bogus Profiles

We’ve already established and proven that the website is responsible for fabricating God knows how many fictitious female profiles. But then we asked ourselves, these dating profiles are fake that’s a fact. But, the photographs are real women, so where did these pictures come from? And by using a software program called Tineye.com we were able to do searches on multiple profiles and we’ve included those profiles below with links showing where the fake dating profiles have stolen pictures that they then use on the perosonal pages.

If you don’t know what Tin Eye is, it’s a software program that does reverse image searches. It searches the internet and it finds duplicates of the image that you’re requesting to do searches on. It’s a fantastic tool to identify fake profiles.

(Screenshot of a phony profile page.)

  • https://pbs.twimg.com/media/DH6gji7XkAAi2j5.jpg

(Screenshot of a phony profile page.)

  • https://byroncrawford.typepad.com/.a/6a00d8341c558f53ef019affcbf9f6970d-600wi
  • https://www.bing.com/th?id=OIP.9Mp_G7Ih7EKoczyT3WXcrAHaHa&pid=Api&rs=1

(Screenshot of a phony profile page.)

  • http://fap.to/images/full/50/398/398274974.jpg

(Screenshot of a phony profile page.)

Fake Emails Used To Trick Their Members Into Purchasing Credits

When we joined the site it didn’t take very long to start getting flooded with messages. Message after message poured in, now we’re up to roughly 50 messages. Unfortunately just like the fictitious profile pages (that the website admits to creating) they also send people fake messages. The emails are sent using automated chatbots which are software programs that can send automated messages that look as if they’re coming from real female members. Their end goal is to get you to believe the messages are real so you will reply to them. However, you can’t reply to any messages until you upgrade and purchase credits. If you take a look at the emails that you received they do look legitimate but don’t get tricked. It’s all a well-organized fraud to ensnare you into giving them your credit card information.

(Screenshot of just a small sample of the phony messages we received.)

Why Would Women Email A Guy With No Photo On His Profile?

Why would women contact a guy who doesn’t have any pictures on his profile page? If you take a look at the evidence below you will see a screenshot of the profile page that we created for this investigation. Circled in red there is no photograph because we never uploaded one. But somehow we still were able to receive over 50 different messages from women who wanted to hook up with us. We’re including this just to show you how phony this website is. There’s no way in hell that 50 different women would contact a guy who doesn’t have a picture on his profile page, it makes absolutely zero sense! But, What does make sense is that automated chat bots are sending us messages.

(Screenshot of our blank profile page.)

This Website Uses “Operators” Aka Employees To Chat With You

FYI this website uses something called operators to make you believe you’re chatting with real people. These paid operators are employees work on behalf of the website. And their job is to mislead you into purchasing credits. These “operators” are employed and are instructed to pretend to be interested in you. They hide behind the fake dating profiles that the website creates. If you get emails from these fake profiles there is a high probability that either it’s an automated chatbot or a paid employee who works for the fake dating service sending you those messages.

The Terms And Conditions Has More Proof Of The Fraud

FindMyFling admittedly fabricated fake profiles that you can find at the bottom footer of every single page on their website. But also in the terms and conditions page they admit that their website is a fantasy entertainment service and that the profiles are fictional. They also stated that your interactions with these fake profiles is actually with operators who work on behalf of the website. You can click on this link that’ll take you directly to the terms and conditions page. You can start reading the first paragraph where they openly admit that the profiles are fictional and that the website is a fantasy entertainment service. Or you can read the most important part of the terms below.

  •  “You also understand that this is a fantasy entertainment service and that the profiles are fictional and your interactions will be with operators.”

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Final Decision:

It wasn’t rocket science to exposed these criminals for the scam that they are trying to pull on the public. Hopefully you found this information useful. If you have any information or experience with FindMyFlings.com leave a comment below.

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 Comments 12 comments

  • Mahdi marjany says:

    Standaard van organisasies weg

  • Patrick O'Brien says:

    You certainly laid out the goods on these guys.  If you don't read the fine print, you're screw but your not gonna screwed.  A lesson learned. But damn!  Some of those women were absolutely beautiful and I thought I was falling in love.  Anyway, great reporting and from now on, if I go looking for love in all the wrong places, I'll use one of the legimate websites you posted.  

    Again, great work,guys.  Now just try to do something about this guy in the oval office.  

  • Tom says:

    It's a TOTAL scam, what a waste of time

    • Admin says:

      FindmyFlings is completely phony. 

      • mark says:

        so I got ripped of by unitedflings.com. they were sending me pics of them, and I fell pray to sending dic pics back, but no face. went to the bank to get money back. will they use this against me?

  • Ronnie T. says:

    Thank you! you confirmed my suspicions, after 3 weeks and close to $100 in credits, I started to wonder why none of the ladies on this site could name one restaraunt in my town to meet! The original meeting lines were in perfect English, but, follow-up responses were broken English at best! Just try to ask for more pictures! Ha! that will never happen! Just as I thought, total scam! Shame on me for being so naive. Anyone interested in my last five credits? If i could send them to you, you can have them!

  • Robin says:

    This is a scam web site and ever thing is fake

    Do not buy any credits or monthly fees from this website they are the most fucked up website I’ve ever seen. Every time I tried to talk with some girl to meet up they always made an excuse that they just want to get to know each other first and it just keeps costing a person more credit or coins do not buy anything from this place and do not waste your money it is the most bullshit fucked up website I’ve ever seen. Would you like me to repeat myself to those of you that are gonna read this email that I put in here do not buy anything from this site.


  • Dennis E. Hagar says:

    I was charge on my card and I did not receive the credits on my account so If you cand place them on my account it will be OK with me. the first time was on 08 10 20 of this year, $119.99 for 100 credits. the second time 08 28 20 of this year $64.99 for 50 credits I did not receive, My Matchgame.com under silverleaf so of you could place this In my account that will be the end of it, however, if you can’t do that I would like a refund of the full amount. thank you

  • That_guy says:

    Wow this is a fucked up site for real don’t buy anything on this site. Also just a random thing I needed people to hear and see is in roblox an order or something just banged me bc my account wouldn’t let me control and I could only type. Please don’t online date just like this scamming website online dating is not good if you meet on SC or something then ok that’s fine but online dating is not ok especially on kids games like roblox etc. Thanks you for reading god bless

  • D LaBrosse says:

    This is amazing how easily they can fool u into buying more credits. Once they have u hooked in they just keep u baited and asking u questions to keep the conversation going. It’s a total scam operation of the worse kind in my view!

  • Jim says:

    Over 1700 messages from over 1000 profiles. Every single one is a fake by their own identification icon (white heart inside of a black dot). They charge $1.50-$2.00 for every message you send to these fake postings. These people belong in jail.

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