Meeting Real Women On Is Like Finding A Needle In The HayStack

 Jun, 12 - 2017   76 comments   ReviewsScams

Website Details:


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  • Home: The home page is like a Twitter feed.
  • Messages: See email messages from other members here.
  • Contacts: This is your friends list, where you can quickly contact your favorite members.
  • Profile: This where you can view and edit your profile page.
  • Activity: The activity section shows you who has visited your profile, who has liked your profile,
  • TOP-users:  This shows you the most popular users.
  • Settings: You can stop email notifications, change your password, add people to your blacklist etc.


We joined in effort to see if the dating service is a truthful  place to interact with real women. Or, is it a scam that looks like a real dating site but offers no opportunity to interact with real people? We registered on the site to see if the site was real or not, any findings and evidence we find of wrongdoing will be discussed below in the investigation.

This Site Is Free To Use But Is It Worth It?

From what we can tell about SP Date it's completely free to use. You can send as many emails and instant messages as you want. The only problem with a site being free is the ability for the website administrators to monitor the site properly. Usually free dating sites operate on a smaller staff and a smaller budget since the site is free. So they can't pay people to monitor the site and kick off abusive users, romance scammers and other negative problems that you get with free dating services. Probably the best thing about this service is that it doesn't cost you anything so even if the site doesn't work out to your benefit the only thing you wasted is time but absolutely no money.

The Emails From Fictitious Girls

Even though the site is free they still have the problem of messages that seem illegitimate. We received 10 email messages so far and using our reverse image software we were able to determine many of the email messages were coming from fake profile pages using stolen photographs of attractive looking girls. This is important to know because it just proves that the dating profiles are creating and using phony and then of course the messages are also fake. The rigged emails are used  by someone either the dating site or romance scammers to dupe us into believing they are legitimate women. You can take a look at the screenshot that we have provided below that shows some of the email messages we have received.

It's not rocket science to spot fake girls sending messages. If all the sudden you get a stream of messages from a variety of hot looking girls you need to ask yourself is this really happening? Are these girls really interested in me or is something else going on here? Because in the everyday world you would never come across so many women who would be coming up to you and talking to you, unless of course you're an actor like George Clooney or Brad Pitt. To join a dating site and start getting so many emails from hot looking girls is a massive red flag that something is not up on the up-and-up. Exactly what's happening on SP Date.

(Screenshot of the pretend email messages we received.)

Stolen Photos Used To Make Fictitious Profiles

We touched on the subject of phony profiles being used on This is a fact. Unfortunately we tried to find the terms and conditions page which many times will reveal that a dating site is creating fake profiles but we can't find any terms and conditions page or privacy policy or even any way to contact the website. But I really didn't matter because we found what we were looking for using reverse image software that helps us to identify if profile photos are being copied or taken from other sites. Below we have five different profiles that we know for a fact are using images of celebrities and pornstars to bill for new profile Pages. You can see the corresponding links where the fake profile pictures are found on other websites.

We provide this information is just more proof of how fictitious and phony is. Also take no these were just a few of the profiles and if we wanted to list all of the phony profiles they would take us all day.

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(This is Sophie Mudd a model and Instagram star. Do you think she actually joined to meets guys?  Her photo has been and used to make a bogus profile page.)


(This is Dillon Harper an American porn star. What are the chances that Dillon Harper is a registered member of SP Date? We would say very, very unlikely.)


(This is Paris Dylan a 23-year-old model from Palm Desert, California. She isn't on Her photo has been hijacked and then used to make a fake profile on the site No one would ever believe.)


Empty Profile But Still Getting Messages Is A Sign Of A Con Job

Another way to spot a fake dating site is to create a profile which doesn't have pictures in it. This is a great way to spot scams because in reality we shouldn't get any messages on SPDate. Why would any women want to contact us when our profile doesn't have any pictures in it. They don't know what we look like and we didn't put any information so they have no clue about our job occupation or anything else related to our profile. But it didn't matter because the site is in a real dating site.

This is always one of our best tools used in uncovering pretend dating services. The use of an empty profile page and still getting messages is a big red sign that the site is going to be a con. That's exactly what happened on

(Screen shot of our blank profile page.)

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Final Decision: is beyond ridiculous. The website has no way to contact their customer support, no privacy policy and no terms and conditions page. On top of that through our investigation we've proved the site has countless fake profile pages. All in all this this site should not be trusted, even if it's free. The ability to meet real women on this site are nill.

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 Comments 76 comments

  • Guy Deshong says:

    While looking at the women assemblied I came across 3 women utilizing my fiances image (Rita Gambler).  I actually chatted with these three scammers.   They are still listed here 1, Lovelysala, 2,anewwoman and  3. Regina Love. they also said that you could meet them at they wewe not verified.


    • saeed ALi says:

      Never chat to enyone if you don’t know 

    • Shanemozz505 says:

      Dont you ask them out for drinks or meant somewhere , or can’t you work that out without a phone app

    • James Creamer says:

      I’m having no luck getting through to any of these ladies! Are you sure this is for real??

    • Santanu mahata says:


    • Jackjames says:

      Actually the site isn't really free, the way the site works is when you engage in chat. Not long in chatting, the girl sends a sexy pic, with some sexual engagemen chat. After a few pics (3 or 4), the last showing her topless, you get a blurred out pic that says it detects explicit nuditty and needs age verification check. One you click age verification link, it opens a page that asks for your credit card number. Read the small print, 30 days free, then so much after.

      That's how they make money, other than the ads.

  • Guy Deshong says:

    Sirs. While browsing through the collection of ladies provided for dating I came across 3 ladies utilizingmy my fiances image (Rita Gambler). I was chatting with the three and call them out. No response. They were not verified either. They are 1. Lovelysala, 2.  anewwoman, and 3.Regina Love. They left and said you could meet up at

  • Henry says:

    Not sure if it's scamming actually, or just a feeder to try to get you to join the site which the links from the chatbots send you.  In terms of sophistication, the chatbots appear to have a little intellect, and give the illusion of a conversation.  It's quite amusing to see what you can get them to say.

    • Rebjr says:

      Lol yes it is! I thought I was the only one to do that LOL

      • Zolt heredy says:

        I actually found it funny what I got the fale woman to say .the site is a feeder site to people _ .there are a few that this and other sites lead to. Also when you get a girl who sent you an email and says let’s blank blank.theres a pic of her???? And I found a few of these real woman in a porno site called that’s my girl .they have these girls posing as Richmond b.c single moms looking for hook ups.

    • Jason Spencer says:

      Yes I agree they repeat things far too often and their responses seem robotic


    • Jason Spencer says:

      Yes I agree they repeat things far too often and their responses seem robotic plus everyone is 19 thats absurd



  • Gerald says:

    When I used spdate they always asked the same questions over and over again and said to join a meet up id website 

  • scott says:

    everyone watch out there is a 12 year old on the site they are doing a sting on this dating just wanted people to  know


  • […] – SPDate is free to use but as soon as you step into the members area it's a constant flurry of fictitious females sending you phony messages. […]

  • Ron Davis says:

    Once you join you can't unsubscribe. 

    • Thomas Vincent says:

      On can one unsubscribe, Ron?

    • Janice Graves says:

      I unsubscribed my husband from this site. It was painful, emotionally, because I had to literally scroll through every string of messages, 25 "girls", and click on every possible place. Finally found it in email subscriptions. Or settings, whatever. It is down toward the bottom.

  • David calvert says:

    I was on this site all fake profiles and it was the same questions over and over again.tried to ask different questions and they come off line nothing genuine at all

  • Martin Williams says:

    I met a real life person on speed dating you know what we're still together fixing to get married so some of your allegations kind of messed up

  • eerT says:

    It's 90% fictitious spam profiles which are easy but I have talked to a real person. I believe the game is increasing it's own popularity. I couldn't bait them into selling or directing me to pay for things.

  • Randy says:

    I agree with you, women on this site are fake, especially when it's the same question asked over and over again from supposedly different women, you can real bust them when you ask for their number, they shut down or you lose your membership saying, membership was deleted cause of not following rules, I'm glad I got deleted

    • Martin Stahl says:

      I just had a chat with a supposed chick on and she told me she is a secret agent. I asked her which intelligence agency she worked for and I received no reply. I am surprised I did not get deleted. I think they shut down because I am not getting any responses to messages I sent.

  • Kevin Young says:

    i am  asumming   these  are  all  Ghana women   with fake  pics

  • Martin says:

    Julielove alledgly from UK is not all I will say is she is Spanish and working in Africa.

    We are engaged and the photo was stolen.any site that steals photos and puts fake names on them, can you really trust them? 

    This site is fake and therefore dishonest or to put it bluntly liars

  • Martin says:

    Julielove alledgly from UK is not all I will say is she is Spanish and working in Africa.

    We are engaged and the photo was stolen.any site that steals photos and puts fake names on them, can you really trust them? 

    This site is fake and therefore dishonest or to put it bluntly liars

    I know where the photo was taken, when it was taken also she is not 32.

  • Tommy says:


  • Jonathan says:

    It’s a fraud site will steal your information, underage girls, investigation needed 

  • Thomas Vincent says:

    How does one unsubscribe from this phony site?

  • […] is in fact a scam. We did a review a couple years ago and this site is still operating and nothing has changed it still has fake profiles everywhere. […]

  • Jambay says:

    Do they use chatbots coz  they repeat but sometimes feels like a real person is talking are messages real or fake 

  • jessica says:

    how are you doing today?hope your doing great.I'm new to these and i don't really feel comfortable posting my pics over here,i hope you understand…if you did not mind send me a mail to this email address [email protected]  i will be glad if we can swap email address ,exchange some pics and start it from there.hope that make sense to you.waiting to read from you soon .thanks.  

  • John says:

    I've been getting msgs or texts from females from all parts of USA none in Australia on my mobile,sometimes they repeat the same questions 2 many times from different females with different names, sick of repeating my answers, when I swipe the msgs or texts off my mobile screen b'cause I'm not interested but they keep sending msgs sometime later, dont know how they got my moobile no# b'cause I didn't give it 2 them in the 1st place, it appears another dating site has passed on my details 2 milfberry,com,, hot & etc without my consent, now I found out these dating sites r scammers trying 2 get my money 2 put me in a higher plan or scale so I can c the photos of naked females, some females want 2 chat only while others r trying 2 have sex with me after chats, it's pissing me off, [excuse the "p" word] they wont leave me alone after asking them 2 stop sending msgs, tryed everything 2 avoid them but no avail. 

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  • Martin Stahl says:

    SPdate and cum2date are the same thing. They are both bogus dating sites. If you look at the top of all these profiles, they say AI by their pic thumbnail which AI-artificial intelligence. I get asked the same questions by the same girls and it gets ridiculous. Then if you send enough dirty messages back to any of them, they say let’s talk about something else. If you look close enough, you can see that several of these photos were photoshopped to make them look better. The real giveaway about spdate and cum2date is that all the girls are 18. I can safely bet that none or very few of the stolen and photoshopped pics of these girls were actually 18. Then there are all these links to other sites that say there is no sign up or credit card. However, when you go to these sites, they ask for your credit card number to verify your age. They do that so they can put charges to porn or other bogus dating sites on your credit card. As far as I am concerned, you would have a better chance of finding someone at a auto salvage yard than on either of these sites.

    • Martin Stahl says:

      An addendum to my comment: I just was on cum2date for kicks and there was someone who told me she was a secret agent and I asked her which agency she worked for and I got no reply.

  • Martin Stahl says:

    I am making another comment on which is the same as and what I meant to say in the first comment was that all these girls that claim to be 18 with these stolen pics are probably 20-25 and there are a couple of them who look like they are in their early 30’s. There is one profile pic on here that looks like a stolen and photoshopped pic of 70’s sex symbol Barbie Benton. You can tell it is a photo shop job. The photo is grainy and you can see the outline of the arms and body, I have also seen 2 different photos that were of the same woman which had 2 different profile names. They weren’t the photoshopped Barbie Benton. It was another woman who had 2 different photos of her stolen and they made 2 different profiles with each photo. Plus they lines these phony chatbots use are taken from the Valentine candy hearts. It is entertaining but they need to come up with better lines and try to be more original.

  • janulove035gm says:

    How to add my pictures, while I chat with girlfriend, I find that my girlfriend sent her pictures but I don’t find any clue how to add my pictures and send my girlfriend

  • Tony Bonfiglio says:

    I think SPdate is a fraud, but there is another site call “Ilkeyou” and I suspect that site is another fake dating site, lots of “like your profile” but no contact comes from it, AND I have seen some of the same women on Romance on the “Ilikeyou” site

  • Thermitus Marcksage says:

    Jesuis completement heureux d’etre avec vous sur cette site

  • William Butts says:

    How come no females left any comments

    • Zoltage198 says:

      Yeah cause I have a profile on there and I get emails from bitches I m still trying to find out what site they are from cause when I look at the messages it sends me to a site just to get my c.c info and I stop? About 10 sites are connected..

  • Lowell Siver says:

    not bad

  • Hassan says:


  • Joe says:

    can’t log in

  • Duck d says:

    It’s crazy

  • baz says:

    it wants dismantling

  • Nick says:

    Buenas chicas

  • Zach says:

    I don’t think it’s real, I looked at a profile and it said AI on almost every one

  • TroyStevenHunt says:

    This is what spdate really a grouip third world shit hole cpubtry of foreign dark men that are pretending to be women of high quality. There is no female’s its its weirdos that.are even bad with their English-language they have ideas they talk super unintended and they get caught up easy id ypu how to trick them i hacked that whole website even the advertising i downloaded all of its data and i have it still saved its pretty crazy what you find about its all stolen and sex offender level men out of the country its a group of blacks that are way poor living in huts and they claimed to be some type army for their poverty they are very shady and will try to their best to develop on Facebook and your e-mails they get all your information abd wreck your reputation spdate is the link of all bad stuff i hacked it and i have all proof anyone needs idk anymore its a dead end no one cares enough to stop iit the advertising is the deep money makers for alot of different illegality there is zero women on the site catfish from hell bad news only this recently known information

  • Pratprat says:

    What if we upgraded for vip and we cancel it. Will the money still be deducted?

  • John Mark Dibert says:

    ITS fake I’m the only one real if you ask them their Facebook , or WhatsApp video call meet they won’t , if you ask them where they work , what city are they ? They will not answer your question.

  • Michael says:

    It’s fake I’ve been testing it

  • nylbert says:

    i love it

  • Haven says:

    I have been on for awhile now and i have been wondering if they were real. I sent someone a question and they didnt even answer it they said that seems good. Thats when i knew it was fake. But one person on here seems real sometimes but fake other times. I would like to know if shd is real. Her name on is Leena Jackson

    • Olin B. says:

      I have been on spdate for admusement knowing that the great majorty (90%plus)of the "ladies' are not real. but with one excepion. I would like to know if Christina Lee is for real. I believe she is but there's no way to know for sure.

      Additional info. Once you strt asking pesonal questions or giving personal info they will leave you with common comments., like contact me at  bah,bah,bah.

  • Extremely frustrated says:

    How do I stop getting notifications from these ads clowns ever 15 minutes. I never subscribed, but they're blowing up my emails/phone. None of the phone numbers I've tried are valid, and when selecting 'unsubscribe', it just takes me back to the site.

  • RJ says:

    I did one of them google photo searches, and was surprised to see how many photos came up that were for a different person.  Also 90% of the likes I got had no photo.

  • Marek says:

    Ahoi,kotátka najd tady 1 peknou štihlou kočičku 🙂 

  • Paul D. Phillips says:

    It is mostly all robotic /AI women that chat on spdate, with the exception of the ones who are scammers, who want you to join other sites that are paid for! No doubt!

  • Tess says:


    • Frederick Parrington says:

      Problem is these people do not understand what a stupid and dangerous game they play with other people’s lives. I spent ten years in prison because someone under estimated what I may do. By accident I came across models and such around Salinas and Monterey Beach I left the area. But I was able to download over 300 + photos of the models the jokes on the because it was all free.

  • Jade says:

    Yeah am sure I fall in love with a bot depending on the way I feel after deleting my profile, I thought she was the one, am 24 old black guy searching for someone to love if interested find me [email protected] for more details, sorry but am just tired guys

  • Jade says:

    I think we should date from here coz am sure there only humans commenting here

  • Jade says:

    Am off spdate and searching for someone real,am a black nice looking guy of 24,if interested contact my email [email protected] or line messenger +256708971474

  • Tony says:

    So, what sites are true to checkout for women?

  • Joe says:

    I always imagined talking to a robot would be more interesting.

  • Frederick Parrington says:

    I found out a lot recently. I put myself in a spot and advertised my location I am not sure how many responded but I recognized a few who came to see if I was real, then had a model post a picture to me of her and a man thing is I recognized him from the place I was at. Busted him because he would come online talking trash. It’s fake

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