XDating.com Has Been Scamming People For Years

 Oct, 28 - 2014   35 comments   ReviewsScams

Website Details:

XDating.com homepage

Listen to our XDating.com Synopsis from SoundCloud, then read the full review:


  • $29.95 for a monthly subscription to this dating service.
  • $59.95 for a 3 month subscription to this dating service.
  • $89.95 for a 6 month subscription to this dating service.


  • Dating Center: You can read messages here, and see your matches. You can also who is online from this section.
  • Search: You can search for women according to a number of options such as country, city, age and if they have photos.
  • Cams: Watch live cams

Fake Video Chat Messages

XDating.com is running the classic phony fake video chat message con. If you take a look at the evidence below you'll see there is a brunette girl who looks as if she's sending me a video chat message. This is a fake prerecorded video that is shown to every single free member on the site. If you do try to send a message to the girl then you get sent to the upgrade payment page where they want you to purchase a membership before you can reply back and send your messages to the girl in the video. The issue is that this girl is not real. What you are looking at is basically an advertisement.

fake video chat message

Fabricated Women That Are Not Real Members

Upon doing further research we determined that a large portion of the dating profiles on the site can actually be found on other sites many of them being adult porno sites. If you look at the evidence below you will see links and they all lead to porn adult sites and forums. The photos of these women are not of actual real members. Those images have actually been taken from adult porn sites and with those photos they have created fictitious dating profiles that they try to use and pawn off as real members of their dating service. It's all a con to make it appear as if

\XDating.com fake profile

(This is not a member of XDating.com, this persons image is being used to trick you into believing she is a member when the truth is she is not.)

  • http://images.affaire.com/787/1119787_2_16.jpg
  • https://whatboyswant.com/forums/read/76151/page:9/limit:10

XDating phony profile

(another fake girl who is actually an amateur porn star, the links below go to pages where the exact same image can be found.)

  • http://store.crushblvd.com/images/uploads/100x100_0405b4b95c87d4f0ad05f107b6f2606c.jpg
  • http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-1BgDcYk8R7g/T__jnfv4a9I/AAAAAAAAAsI/3sdyqBZm5a0/s1600/minding-gaps-3.jpg

We don't want to link directly to these sites since they are adult in nature,

Automated Emails

So far we have received 4 emails from fake girls who are not actual members of the site. These email messages are completely automated, meaning no one is actually sending us these messages. Unfortunately this website has devised a scheme to trick people into believing they are receiving real messages when they are not real at all.


Fabricated Women Who Are Not Real Members

This site clearly describes the use of fake profiles they called "online flirts". They also confess to creating and using automated programs to communicate with people on the site. And lastly XDatig.com even employ people to interact with you! Look in section I6 of the terms and agreement to find all this info.

  • we may post fictitious profiles, generate or respond to communications by means of automated programs or scripts that simulate or attempt to simulate your intercommunication with another real human being (though none really exists and any dialog is generated by programming)
  • we may employ or contract for the paid services of real persons who may interact with you as part of their compensated employment. While these communications may seem genuine, authentic, and personal, they may be broadcast simultaneously to a large number of persons and possess none of these qualities.

Hosting Server Info:

  • Address Of Host: 11200 12Th Avenue South, Seattle, WA, 98144, US
  • IP Address Of Server:
  • Name Servers: ns-1142.awsdns-14.org ,ns-1727.awsdns-23.co.uk, ns-423.awsdns-52.com, ns-860.awsdns-43.net

Contact Information :

  • Phone: 1 661 705-5088
  • Address: Victoria Road, Basseterre, Saint-Kitts, Saint-Kitts and Nevis.
  • Email: [email protected]

Final Decision:

Stay away from this ongoing fraud, your shot at meeting a real girl is very slim.

XDating.com New Update:

We did a new 2016/2017 comprehensive investigation into XDating.com that you can read here. It's much more detailed with new information that you should know about.

File A Report

  • Contact the Better Business Bureau and file a complaint if you feel that you have been scammed or ripped off.

 Comments 35 comments

  • Miguel says:

    So are ALL the female accounts on this fake? If not how can I know for sure? I have a free account on xdating and a message from a woman I'm really attracted to, supposedly living in the same small town as me, and she said she's interested in many things including meeting in person.

    How likely do you think it is for a fake profile to suggest it may want to meet you, especially in it's first message to you?

    Please let me know your thoughts on this ASAP. I'm really fixated on this one very beautiful chick and considering buying a 1 month membership just for her. I'm a 26 yr old vergin! And awear that I may be thinking with my penis too much on this. I'd apreciate your advice.

    • Dean says:

      I've Dona few studies about this site over the last couple of years. It's one of the biggest scans out there. Before you join, you get plenty of messages from a lot of fake women and profiles. As soon as they sucker you into a paid membership, I promise you , you will never hear back from that person. Why is that, because they don't exist. Better spending your money on a good porn movie

      • Dave says:

        Im embarrassed to admit that I was duped by the messaging of fake women.  Since I paid for my membership, I have communicating with a couple "women"?  Their messages have been personalized using my name and responding to specifics in my messages.  But they don't want to meet up, only continue messaging.  Not sure why the site does this, maybe to get me to extend my membership.  At least I used a pre-paid card so they can't do auto- renewal.

    • joe berger says:

      i too got several very interesting  letters…before i joined the site.

      As soon a i joined not one of the 4 ever contacted me again NOT ONE.

      this site is a total fraud and i wish i had looked it up before i joined … STUPID ME. !!!!

      • Admin says:

        Yep, XDating.com is a total fraud you hit it on the nail! Thanks for commenting and spreadign the truth about XDating.

    • Patrick says:

      Best piece of advice. Don't throw away your virginity, or your money, on someone you meant on an adult dating site. She's most definitely fake. You can always use paint to right your email on your profile pic. If she's real, and is actually keen, she'll notice the address.

    • Trev says:

      Miguel, this is classic scam. keep your money for a real girl. google "personal classifieds (and type your area) and you will get ads of real woman to meet. I got scammed a couple of times by fake websites. now I try to check each time on google by using websites name and asking google it it's a scam. or check out Google's authentic dating list by searching for real dating sites. Good luck Miguel.

  • Miguel says:

    I also want to add that she also said she was up for video chat.

    • Dean says:

      Miguel, don't waste your money, this site is the biggest scam out there. You will never hear from that person again once you join.

    • Dean says:

      Miguel, don't waste your money. I am on this site, not too meet anyone, because that will never happen. I am on this site too gather info, too help people like you too realize that this site is a big scam. Before I joined, I got message from plenty of women. Like you, a lady from my home town. When I joined for a month and sent them a message too them, I never heard from that person agin. I did this with about twenty ladies, still waiting too hear from them. They cover there ass in there terms agreement. They clearly say that these profiles are made up along with there photos. Trust me save your money, it's the biggest scam out there.

      • johnny says:

        You are so right.   ……as soon as I joined  I think I received  one  or maybe  two  messages .  Sounds  good, then 3-4 days  went bye  and never  heard  from  them  again . I had this funny  feeling . …damm

      • Jetmach says:

        Hi Guys ,am from riverside, California. And moved to Seattle in may.heroes my story.back a fee years ago, I was scammed by a women from a site called adult friend finder, I wired get lots of $$$ ,as a result of that plus other things like losing my wife and job,I became Homeless.real dumb and stupid! I should have known better.we had an online relationship going for several months.and shared with Mr a Buillshit story about some inheritance that she was suppose to get and need my financial help.FUCK! Was I fooled.this woman never existed and is/was a FAKE! So guys a lesson to the wise, be DAMN careful what u spend your money on! And don't become homeless like I did.I almost committed suicide!!!

  • Miguel says:

    Her profile name is yoyino83 so you can check it out tell me if you think it's legit. Sorry I didn't already tell you that.

  • Jim says:

    It's fake, they just eliminated my account after 7days… 

  • wilf says:

    how do i know that the xdating scammers-which i did buy into for a month-will not be able to use my credit info to suck more money out of me. my bad wish i had seen the scams revealed stuff first  thinking with the wrong head  happens all the time

    • Fred says:

      thanks for saving Me Money…I now know this is a CON?…I spent $60 with no action I was ripped off with X Meeting….So don't get ripped off stay AAAWWWAAAYYY from these Dating Sights…





    • Dean says:

      They have a link on there site that says help, message them and tell them you want the auto renewal taken off, and you do not want too be billed any longer

    • Dean says:

      They have a link on there site that says help, message them and tell them you want the auto renewal taken off, and you do not want too be billed any longer, I did not address this point on my last two post. This tell how you can stop the billing process

  • bob says:

    Man I am so glad I found this site! I was going to jump in. 

  • wimp says:

    Discovered an exact duplicate of a flickr photo from 5 years ago… a topless strawberry blonde posted on here..  Original was from Midwest, this 1 cleims ot be local.  

  • Laurin says:

    XDating is a fraud.  Save your money no matter what any of the women say.  Do not give them your FB!!  No matter what you think, they are ALL fake.  Sorry it's the truth, don't get burned…

  • Dean says:

    Been on this site a couple of times gathering info too put out there to other men that may think about joining this scam worthless site. They make there money when you first start out before you join, you get plenty of messages from women, they don't exist, there profiles are made up. As soon as you pay for a membership, you will send a message too someone who sent you a message before you joined, I promise you will never hear from that person again. They make there money, because don't read the fine print in there terms agreement. They clearly state that these profiles don't exist, they are made up, and there is no chance you will ever meet anyone. My advice, read the terms agreement, and stay away from these losers.

  • Dean says:

    If anyone on this site needs any info, trust me I am the person you want too ask, been on this site for a couple of years trying too gather as much info, to share with people who may been thinking about joining. It's the biggest scam out there.tou have a better chance of meeting a lady on the moon.

  • mikey J says:

    I set up a profile.. as a test.. I pick the worst of every catagory…  "red eye's"….  lol  I lived in my moms basement…  fat.. old… bald..unemployeed..  still got about 5 hits a day from serious hotties…. lol   what idiot are out there that fall for this BS.??

  • sam says:

    x dating is a fraud site 

  • John says:

    Was on there and they cut me off  so now I  can't even contact  them to unsubscibe 




  • jimmy says:

    Damn thanks Dean,this is par for the course but when you suck at golf mise well go ride! To hell with some people what a crock! I owe you a beer

  • Nameless says:

    Did u ever send any1 a message or did u just lurk the whole time. It's what u said, advertisement, all sites do it. Doesn't mean these are scam sites


  • Kevin says:

    What everyone said above is true.

    DO NOT wast your money on this site.

  • Rob says:

    thank you for this. Thankfully I read this review before I subscribed. Your input from everyone is accepted and probably saved me a bunch of time and money.

  • Howard White says:

    Same here.Big time scam.I was 90 years old fat had 2 dicks but no nuts and i was penniless on my profile.Still got all these hits from porno looking ladies supposedly in my town.Population 400.Save your money.Find a bookie and bet against braves every day.You will make a few dollars.

    • Admin says:

      lol, anyone including a “90 years old fat had 2 dicks but no nuts and i was penniless” will get messages just prove how phony XDating.com is.

  • Crank says:

    I actually ended up paying for 1month member !..lucky i actualy met 1 rreal person! and we ended up hooking up! i guess i just got lucky 🙂

  • gonzo says:

      These kind of sites all work the same way and are no different than a get rich quick typw of thing… people who get ripped off with those do so because they are greedy and looking for something for nothing and are easy marks because their greed makes them lose their common sense.  Common sense, do you really think some starlet needs to find a date?  that she needs to come on a site like this and say i want to fuck?  Why? all she has to do is go out in public and she will get hit on.  going on one of these sites is no different than going to a bar, it doesn't matter how many woman are there if you just lean against the wall all night and aren't out "workin it" you won't score there either.  I can't say for sure about this site, but I have scored women on similar sites… they aren't all fake profiles.  If your a player and want to play the game you can score… but your gonna have to work at it just like you do at the bar.  If your at the bar how many women can you hit on in one night?  how many will you score? How much will you spend before you score that pussy?  Write a good form letter, check new members a couple times a day and hit every new member, if you don't get any response after a month try a different site or two… you will probably spend the same amount of money and the same amount of time for the same result.  Chances are if you are on one of these sites you have a problem talking to women or can't handle the rejection and you won't do any better at the bar,  common sense… chicks that are real and are on here are looking for something that isn't walking up to them every day, they are probabley looking for a threesome or another girl, and how do you know what they really look like, if that picture is one of themselves, when was it taken?  If you can't go through all the pictures you have and can't find one that you look good in, your hurtin… girls have more pictures of themselves than guys do so what do you think your gonna get?  You can meet girls on these sites, I have done it.. but your better off growing a pair and meeting some in person.  Is the site a scam? yes, they are working you.. because you let them.  Can you meet real women here? Yes, but be realistic it isn't going to be easy

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