Caught Red Handed Scamming 1000s Of People

 Apr, 10 - 2019   13 comments   ReviewsScams

Website Details:


  • 10 credits is $23.99 with a cost of $2.39 per message.
  • 25 credits is $54.99 with a cost of $2.19 per message.
  • 50 credits is $98.99 with a cost of $1.98 per message.
  • 100 credits is $179.99 with a cost of $1.80 per message.
  • 200 credits is $419.99 with a cost of $1.39 per message.


This is our 582nd post on! Over the years we’ve exposed hundreds of different fake hookup sites and the scams keep on pouring in. There’s a new dating scam every single day. For today’s investigation we’re looking into whether is legit or fake. Read the full review that we did below.

Connections To Other Dating Frauds

Using some of our online detective capabilities we were able to find out that MySecretHookups is connected to a bunch of different fake dating sites including,,,,,, and also All these sites look the same, all these sites operate in the same fashion. All of these sites are connected, and all of these sites are scams. All these different dating services are created to rip you off and this site is absolutely no different than the others.

All these websites and countless others are owned and operated by a corporation called Graham Web Services BV. This company is located in the Netherlands. Here is their contact information if you ended up purchasing credits on any of the sites that we’ve listed above. Reach them at +31854000348, or by email at [email protected]. Their address is Bergweidedijk 38, 7418AA Deventer, The Netherlands. Of course no surprise that their address is nothing but a virtual office and not their real corporate headquarters. Obviously if you’re a scammer you need to hide your tracks and not disclose your relocation like these crooks have done.

The Site Confesses To Creating Fake Profiles

 Even before we gained access to the members area of the website we started looking around for clues of deception and lies. We found it very quickly. You can see circled in red it states “that are profiles are partly fictional, physical arrangements with these profiles are not possible.” That tells you that they’re using fictitious fake dating profiles and that you cannot physically meet up with these fictitious profiles. This was found on the bottom of the front page of the website. The people running these type of phony hookup sites are nothing but shysters, liars and masters at deception.

The whole agenda of this website is to mislead you into buying credits on their web service. When they started this website it was not their intent to build a legitimate place where men and women could find one another.

(A screenshot where they admit to creating fictional profiles.)

We Got Inundated With 772 Bogus Emails

 We want you to look at the screenshot that we’ve included as evidence below. 772 emails is the amount of messages sent to us on this website, 772! All of this is a farce. Every single email was generated by a chat software program. None of these emails was written by real women looking for casual sex. You might be asking why was a website using automated software program to send 772 emails to us. The answer is that if you were to reply to all those messages they would make a ton of money.

If we wanted to reply to every single email message it would cost us over $600! Now do you understand why the website is doing everything they can to con people into using their website. They badly want you to fall for their scam and buy credits so you can communicate with the women sending you the emails. But there’s no point, since the emails are fake and the women sending you the emails are also fictitious, as we’ve already outlined above.

(this is a screenshot showing the 772 phony emails sent to us!)

Below we’ve included a screenshot showing you a small sample of the emails that we received. Remember all these emails are sent from computer software bots, not from real people. But as you can see circled in red the emails look like they’re coming from real women and done purposely of course to get you to purchase credits. Now you have been told the truth about what’s really going on with this website.
(this is a screenshot showing a sample of the emails sent to us.)

Screeshot Of Our Profile Page

Below have included a screenshot of our profile page circled in red it you will see it says “no profile picture”. This means we haven’t uploaded any photograph to our profile page but 772 different women emailed us? How ridiculous is that! Why on earth would 772 women email a dating profile that has no pictures on it? Probably no women would email a guy who doesn’t have any pictures in his profile BUT an automated chat bot would mail someone who doesn’t have pictures in his profile because a bot isn’t a real person. A bot is a software program created to perform a task. This just proves even more so that it’s website is indeed a scam and nothing more than that!
(A  screenshot of the profile page that we used for this investigation.)

The Terms Prove They Create & Use Fake Profiles & Send Fake Emails

Even in the terms and conditions page in section 5.3 they admit that they’re using fictitious profiles that they’re responsible for creating. Take a look at the evidence below which is a screenshot that we’re including as evidence into this investigation.

The Terms Prove They Create & Use Fake Profiles & Send Fake Emails

The terms and conditions page also states that they “send calls through self-created profiles.” What the hell does this mean? It means that they use the profiles that they are creating to send fake emails through. The 772 emails are 100% phony. And this is proven just by reading that little excerpt in section 5.3 of the terms and conditions page.

(A screenshot of the terms page proving they send us fake email messsages.)

The Terms And Conditions Proves It All

We’ve already talked about this but we have include excerpts from the most important parts of the terms and conditions page, and we also linked to the terms page so you can read the evidence for yourself. In Section 5.3 of the terms page they state that they have the “right to send calls” on This means that they’re telling us they have the right to send us fake emails and instant messages. And they also admit that they create fictitious profiles and send the fake emails through the self-created phony profiles. You can read the few sentences below or click on this link (section 5.3) to be taken directly to the terms page where you can read it for yourself.

  • 5.3. Graham Web Services B.V. explicitly reserves the right to send calls on through self-created profiles. These are fictitious
    profiles with which no physical agreements are possible.

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Final Decision:

Concluding this investigation we’d like to warn you about not using this dating site, not purchasing credits and staying as far away as you can from the website. There’s nothing good to gain from joining it whatsoever!

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File A Report

  • Contact the Better Business Bureau and file a complaint if you feel that you have been scammed or ripped off.

 Comments 13 comments

  • Ox says:

    I’ve been on and of these sites for 3 years if not more. I’ve spent hundreds of $ and have jot meet a chick to fuk. Can u guys please help

  • R J Arpin says:

     They are operating a new site called Secret Adultery SA  The same format charging for credits The profiles are fake You are inundated with messages from these asswipes all FAKE  Do not subscibe It took me two days and $200.00 cdn to realize it;s a scam  I have reported them to the RCMP Fraud dept. These Rodents need to be arrested 

  • Damien Joseph says:

    In More you don't show any pictures, more sexy woman text you there but never want meet you. Only 1 woman take my number Phone there and don't respond me after see my face. Many womans in the reality like me, like my face, say to me i am handsome but ther. One real woman sexy woman in a restaurant say to me ( Oh my gosh, you are just like Justin Timberlake), but In , never want meet me, just talk, Again, Again, Again, Again & again ; it's complet scam want adultery for make money easy from us and garanty because thém know have a possible ( Adultery). Many site are scam site but Secret adultery is probably thé more  scam site in thé World. This technic to make money from possible adultery is thé best technic ever for robber everyone & and never have pursuit. Le thé best technical strategy ever because if you bad talk To this compagny, all informations you send there can be use Versus You for destroy your life after that. 

    • Admin says:

      Hi Damien thanks for leaving a comment. sounds like a typical dating scam. Fictitious women send you FAKE messages to lure you into purchasing credits or a monthly membership.

  • Jim says:

    If it will help others, I blew $1,000 there in less than a week in messages alone. he messages are limited in size (characters), and each costs about $2.50 to send and just one photo can be attached.

    Not one of the women I messaged would even consider changing to FB or some other cheaper (or free) method of messaging – remember, (if they are real) they are paying as much as I am – so IMHO probably every woman there is fake and we are getting all of our replies from an admin (site owner).
    And how many women who work during the day can respond immediately to messages every day of the week at 2:00am or 3:00am?

    \With less than 30 mesages in storage, my email count zommed past 200. I wrote to the admin, they told me to restart my computer and clear my cache. I did that, no change, not I have less than 15 mesages in storage and the message count is showing close to 600.

    Every message I ever got ended in another question – which suggests they were trying to suck more messages out of me. Big money from suckers.

    I will be deleting my Profile on Tuesday (in 3 days).

  • Hugues Desjardins says:

    can yo u change my master card no for my new one witch is 5234 6511 9094 4881 from now on I’m not able to buy credit because of my old card please if ther something wrong send me an e -mail thanks in advance p’s I like your site very much

  • Paul says:

    1/2 years $10,000 and still SFA One lady there I actually saw in a restaurant here in Nova Scotia and she confirmed it was her but still she won’t meet me , I also got messages from women in Europe that thought I was in London UK , The big problem with the internet now is that there are more scammers than honest people

  • Pennelope. says:

    The way I see it is if you’re on those sites and married. You friggin deserve to be scammed.

  • Douglas souliere says:

    I am a member on I have spent hundreds if not thousands of dollars talking to various women of all ages anywhere from 19 to as far as 90 I truly believe they are all fakes and they are good at building your ego and trying to make you spend more credits to talk to them I got deeply hooked because I really thought it was real and when I joined the site it was with the intention that I was going to meet and fuck on a regular basis but this is not true three different ladies I talked to for over six months and they kept telling me to be patient and wait and nothing ever happened with that and I spent over $1000 easily on Messages I’ve been on that website for a year and a half and have not met one single girl off of there they are very good at what they say to get you hooked and to believe in them and they ask questions so quickly and so fast even after you explain to him your situation about finances and how expensive it is and you ask them to go through a different talking chat platform and they don’t want to do that they don’t like to leave this platform where we can talk for free it Hass to be on my secret they will not budge from here they will not heat to your suggestions or ideas I’ve tried to meet them in person and talk away from this platform and then have them ask all sorts of different questions without costing a bundle I even suggested for them to do it in a public place and bring a friend if they want so that they will not have to worry about their safety and we can both leave our different ways but there again they don’t want to do that and what about my concerns about me meeting psycho stalker girl that will cause me nothing but hell I am deeply concerned about my privacy and all the problems that would be caused by meeting a girl that didn’t turn out to be a stalker and basically hurt guys I truly believe that is nothing but a scam website designed to go after all women and guys and play on their feelings and their vulnerable sides we all want companionship and feel close to each other I believe in that but it’s just not gonna happen there I am going to go into business for myself and design a website where it will be a lot cheaper and all members will be screened thoroughly because I want an honest and legit website where people can interact and be who they are and claimed to be no false pictures and any member that will break the rules of my website will be pulled away immediately even if they have paid or not I want legit members and not a lot of scammers I am tired of being played for a fool and being scammed all the time I have lost over $40,000 because of this all I can say to all you women and men is do your research be vigilant because most likely what seems to be too good to be true often is it is hard to find anything nowadays on the Internet that is legit and in honour of their business when I have my website up and running I will let and put out on social media for all members and they will be screened before joining I don’t want false promises false hopes and people that are dishonest I believe in saying what you mean and honouring what you mean and not be a fake person all members have to be vigilant and what they say and do and if you are not I do not want you in my website and this will all be explained when I set up my business yes you will pay for Messages but they will be a lot cheaper than all the other websites and a better dollar ratio to the amount of questions that you can ask I want to have a website that is rated five star and not a star and a half at best so this is my message to you men and women out there be truthful be real be honest and no harm will come to anyone from here because there’ll be nothing but honest people here even now my secret hook ups rip me off they took my money and never issued me any credits no this is what scammers do so be careful I am closing out my name is Douglas Souliere I wish you all well and hope you find the excitement and happiness that my website will provide

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