Isn’t Real, It’s One Big Con

 May, 06 - 2014   22 comments   Scams

Website Details: home page


  • $29.95 for a monthly paid subscription.
  • $59.95 for a 3 month paid subscription.


  • Search: Search based on location, new members and zip code.
  • Online Now: See who is online right now
  • Mail: Check your emails directly on the site.
  • Chat: You cannot view this option unless you pay.
  • Activity: You can see who has interacted with you in the past on the activity page
  • My Account: Add videos and photos of yourself and update your profile from this section.
  • Live Cams: Watch women live on cam by paying on a per minute basis.

Instant Messages From Nonexistent Women is yet another dating site that does everything in his power to deceive and scam you. We have included a screenshot of the email inbox on the site which shows some of the emails we received. In total we received 29 email so far from women who are supposedly interested in us. We cannot click on any of the links to actually view the emails we can only read the subject line and see who has mailed us. If we try to click on the link to read the full message you are automatically sent to the upgrade page to purchase a paid membership. This is one of the tricks that this site uses to con people into paying for a monthly subscription. So, you cannot read any emails messages which would be completely fair if the site was legitimate and actually worth paying for. The truth is though that these emails are not being sent to us from real people. In fact all the ladies sending us emails are not even real! This site is responsible for sending it's members bogus emails that appear to coming from local women. We know this allegation to be 100% true because Affair Dating admits to fraud in their terms and service in section 2.2.

They state the following, "We may, from time to time, send electronic communications to ask how our members are using certain aspects of the Service and to stimulate conversation between members." The key part of the sentence is "stimulate conversation between members". So they are admitting to sending emails to get members to interact with one another. But, the real deception on top of the fake emails is of course the girls are not even really sending you those messages.

fake emails

Instant Messages From Nonexistent Women

Just like the fake email messages we mentioned above, this site also resorts to using phony instant messages that are sent a free members. The instant messages cannot be read. If you click on the "reply" button you once again get sent to the payment page. And once again there is absolutely no point to buy a membership since the women sending you chat messages are not even real!

Back to what it says in the terms in section 2.2: "We may, from time to time, send electronic communications to ask how our members are using certain aspects of the Service and to stimulate conversation between members." This basically means that they use instant messages to "stimulate conversation",  which is all a lie. The truth is that they use automated methods to send people fake instant messages so they can trick you into upgrading so they can make money from you.

fake instant messages

Did You Really Think Those Women Were Real?

The image below is just a small example of the "female members" on the site. Obviously these women much to attractive to be on a dating site to hook up with men. These girls are not actual members of the dating service. We read the terms and they clearly state that they create profiles for marketing. And they definitely are using these profiles for marketing. This is what they say in the terms, "We create user profiles for use by our customer support representatives for the support, marketing and improvement of the Service."  The problem is that there are very few real women on the site and to make up for that they simply fabricate profiles complete with a fake age, height,location etc. The whole profile is a sham and none of it is real, and there are hundreds if not thousands of illegitimate profiles on this site.


Hosting Server Info:

  • Address Of Host: 1 Katalanou Street office/flat 1012121 Aglantzi Nicosia, Cyprus
  • IP Address Of Server:
  • Name Servers:,

Contact Information :

  • Phone: 44 800 051 7318
  • Addresses: Katalanou, 1, 1st floor, Flat/Office 101,Aglantzia, 2121, Nicosia, Cyprus and Trident Chambers P.O. Box 146
    Road Town Tortola British Virgin Islands
  • Email: [email protected]

Final Decision:

Fake dating profiles, phony emails and fabricated instant messages. The whole site is one big sham and should not be trusted.The only thing real on this site is the male members, all the women have been created in a computer room. Paying for a membership on this site is as smart as eating at McDonalds to be healthy. It is a waste of money and you will get nothing out of it but grief and a feeling of being conned.

Search For Real Females

If you want to find real women, then look at these legit dating sites.

 Comments 22 comments

  • michael purdy says:

    Thanks for the info I will delete my 3 day trail immediately ok

  • Sean says:

    Please delete my account. I've had trouble removing it. My username is seanadams3013 and my password is shugrue1.

  • Ghostbud says:

    Seems is been has by this site for too long. I Should have figured I knew there was something not right with it. Will be cancelling my account now. 

  • mark says:

    cant delete my account and after the 3 day trial they have taken £40 out of my bank….the steps to cancel dont work..HELP

  • david cutts says:

    Biggest load of dogdirt i have ever had the misfortune to come across. You will be bombarded with "requests" to send your email address. Of course nobody would do this as they will then send a link and scam you. Its absoloutely w*** and i dont mean in a good way 

  • keith says:

    hi can you please help me i have been majorly sucked in by a web site dating affairs an hookup id once i have  realised the mistake i made way partingout with nearly $200.00  i started to do the cancel i followed the instructions this has not happened they said i had to verfie a hookup-id passport to prove i was who i was i know this is stupid i went through this process a number of time when it clicked i had been linked to other porn site which i have no intrest in when i said no  an said i would no put my details in again i have been threatened with 800.00 a month in fines i just want to have these two site closed so i dont lose anymore money at. i can provide details more should you require  please help me 

    • Dave says:

      Why did they threaten you with fines. Could you not just put a stop payment on things.

      • mikefranks22 says:

        i can help-it to another web-called  sitejabber-will help you with this-,or email me- [email protected]/I can'tstand scammers-it  makes me angry! Being fromBrooklyn, NY-they need a visit or I'll send it to site-jabber.They will post it online! 

  • chris says:

    ok and ive tried to delete my profile but they dont answeer! and i need a kode for deleteing my payment

  • Kyle kuske says:

    I need my account closed. Ive tried to unsubscribe and called the number. They said since i paid my account sill stay active till the 15th and the so called admin keep threatening me to bill me $500-$600 a month. Someone please help me.

  • Player says:

    This site is absolutely a scam. I have sent seven emails requesting my 3 day subscription to be cancelled and profile deleted and they have not answered. They provid a telephone number that you must call in order to cancel. But of course the number never answers. 

  • Sean Adams says:

    I wish to cancel my account. Someone please help me.

  • Dave says:

    Has anyone been able to cancel their memberships. I tried to get a reset on my password so I could cancel and they coudn't find my user name? Has anyone tried stop payment on their credit cards?


  • Bill says:

    Don't go to it's a scam to

  • Niyah says:

    Please help me delete my account as well they keep trying to make me send more money. My account name is bishop 

  • Emily says:

    Everyone ! 

    Go too the site on computer, I clicked my pic went too settings then remove account from options!

    Ishould have screen shot my steps. 

    Just fallow steps, and it should delete.

    Stupid site.

  • […] used to market various dating sites. The list of dating sites includes,,,, and in this particular case it's marketing a known scam called […]

  • Hassan says:

    Ciao tiamodonna calda fajri 

    Allora sei nel facebook mi chiami che non sono abbonamento sul sito 3898839664 ok loloso come posso risolvere il problema della bagamento 

  • Scott s. says:

    I just cancelled my 3 day trial because too many women on the site are girls. I seek someone real and this site doesn't have that plus the women all want you to verify that you are safe to meet, such bs!!

  • mikefranks22 says:

    Scott:great call on noticing the requests–its a red flag! I'm in day- and being a profiler/ I am suspious already-1 day!

  • Rumrules says:

    This article is wrong, not all of the accounts are fake you can have conversations with real people here.

  • Leave a Reply

    Your email address will not be published. Fields with * are mandatory.

    This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.